rss fb tt
  • Home
  • Social & Life
  • Feel Good
  • Look Good
  • Work & Money
  • Columnists
  • About
  • Contact
girl
Social & life / Feb. 14, 2012 / by Kerry / 1 Comments

Standing up for choice

Being thrust a leaflet from on the walk to work has made TT’s Kerry worry about the future for choice…

One cold morning this week, I was handed this leaflet.

Perhaps I do look the sort of loose woman likely to get herself knocked up (it’s the knee-high socks), but that seems a harsh judgement to make when I’m just walking to work in the morning.

Worryingly, this is starting to happen more and more often in Central London. Why? BPAS, the British Pregnancy Advisory Service, has a clinic here, which has attracted the attention of various anti-choice groups. They don’t like to be called “anti-choice” of course – but that’s exactly what they are. They want to deny British women our legal right to choose not to give birth to a child we don’t want.

The main culprits I’ve come across are 40 Days for Life (a religious group originally founded by two American men) and the authors of the leaflet I was handed – who turned out to be pretty difficult to track down. No name was given on the leaflet, only a “freephone pregnancy advice” number and various promises of non-judgemental help. (Non-judgemental?) When I Googled the number the first result took me to the website of the Society for the Protection of Unborn Children (SPUC).

The two groups have different tactics. In London 40 Days for Life hold prayer vigils lasting 40 days – usually over Lent – across the road from the clinic, as well as Birmingham and various locations in the US. SPUC tends to use nuns and supposedly anatomically-correct foetus dolls. Nice.

Both methods of protest are perfectly peaceful, if intimidating for clinic visitors and staff, and I’m aware that they’re probably not the most militant groups out there. But are they a worrying sign of organised anti-choice pressure and intimidation to come?

It’s a slippery slope. Look at the situation over in America. At some clinics, women require chaperones to get them through picket lines. ‘Protesters’ throw red paint and wave around foetus dolls. Whatever your view on abortion, we don’t want things in this country to get to that state.

Yet things really aren’t looking good right now on the pro-choice front. We’ve got Nadine Dorries stirring things up with her abortion bill (well, the woman has do something to keep her name in the papers; she’s hardly a towering political presence otherwise), on which Laurie Penny has written an excellent article in the New Statesman. And the abortion limit was threatened by a vote to lower it from 24 to 20 weeks in 2011, though this was soundly defeated.

You may also have also noticed the recent twitter-storm over provision of contraception in the US. The hashtag #iusebirthcontrol has been trending. Yep, that’s right, young women are actually having to defend their use of contraception. Wow. (Depressingly, one of the top results reads “If you really want birth control, STOP OPENING YOUR LEGS.” )

Alongside all of this craziness, we have the continuing question of how much choice actually exists to begin with. I’m sure you’re all aware that getting rid of an unwanted pregnancy isn’t as easy as nipping along to your GP and asking for a “speedy lunchtime abortion, please!”

Nope. The consent of two doctors is required, and “I just don’t want it, actually” isn’t officially a good enough reason. Generally, the two doctors will put on the record that the pregnancy would be detrimental to your mental health. I’m not going to say too much on this, as Deborah Orr has it well covered over at the Guardian. But it does seem strange to me that women can’t be trusted to make a rational decision and choose to terminate a pregnancy without having to pretend continuing it would send us loopy.

So what can we do to ensure that firstly our freedom of choice isn’t eroded, and secondly anti-choice groups like those listed above don’t get any more of a foothold?

Frankly, I’m not qualified to give a good answer to the first. And I’m well aware that this isn’t an argument likely to go away. That main sticking point of when life begins looks unlikely to be solved probably ever.

What about the second? Well, I got sick of doing nothing (save for the occasional glare and tut – how very British) and set up the Bloomsbury Pro-Choice Alliance with a friend. It sounds more impressive than it actually is right now, but we’re meeting next week to discuss what we can do. Personally, I’m in favour of being relentlessly happy at them – maybe setting up on the adjoining corner of Bedford Square with a cookie stand, some good-natured placards (“Resistance is Foetal?”) and some suitably hippy-esque students with acoustic guitars (you know the type).

I’d be willing to bet that similar groups exist wherever anti-choice protests are taking place – so get involved. Help spread the word that this sort of anti-choice movement will just not be accepted in Bloomsbury, in London, or anywhere else in the UK.

More on contraception…

Single and on the pill?
The terrifying three minute wait for that little blue line
The male pill – let’s get it already

Related Posts

  • The male Pill – why scientists should invent it already
  • Single and on the Pill
  • The three minute pregnancy test wait….

Comments

Written by: Kerry

  • Read more…

    • Seven steps to “unbelievable” eyebrows
    • The 30 deadline: why does turning the big 3-0 have to be laden with stress?
    • Sex and the Settee: shortcomings
    • Bikram yoga: should you bother?
    • Diary of a frightened cyclist: part 3
    • Slow down! Why multitasking isn’t always worth it
    • Porn for girls: why written erotica is better than video
    • Winter cycling: Barack! it*
  • Looking Good

    fashion tittat spring

    Work Wardrobe: Spring/Summer 2013

    Apr. 30, 2013 / 0 Comments

    After this year’s long, hard winter, it’s...

    Crop top and leather?!

    Don’t bother: SS’13 fashion trends to avoid

    Apr. 21, 2013 / 0 Comments

    Utterly flummoxed at spring/summer’s supposed trends?  You’re...

    autumn winter boots clothes

    Work Wardrobe: AW 2012

    Nov. 30, 2012 / 0 Comments

    It’s winter! It’s raining and cold and...

    hair_dye

    How to mend over-dyed, ruined hair

    Oct. 09, 2012 / 0 Comments

    Too much dye, too much heat, dry...

    Columnists

    SATCLOGO

    Sex and the Settee: first date conversational cringe

    Apr. 30, 2013 / 0 Comments

    My renewed enthusiasm for online dating has...

    exercise fitness gym sucks horrible working out

    Why is keeping fit so horrible?!

    Apr. 22, 2013 / 0 Comments

    Torturing yourself on not managing to keep...

    dm_1

    Let’s boycott the MailOnline for 24 hours

    Jan. 29, 2013 / 0 Comments

    You can live without it, so stop...

    rape sex ed blackboard

    Why rape has a place in the National Curriculum

    Jan. 13, 2013 / 0 Comments

    Were you taught about the difference between...

    Blogroll

    • Documentation
    • Plugins
    • Suggest Ideas
    • Support Forum
    • Themes
    • WordPress Blog
    • WordPress Planet

    Hot topics

    abortion advice beauty career choice Clothes contraception cooking cycling dating easy engagement exercise fashion female feminist Food friends grooming gym hair health Healthy how to Looking Good love Marriage money politics professional recipe recipes Relationships running safety sex sex and the settee sexism Wardrobe waxing wedding weddings why women work
    • © Copyright TitTat / All Rights Reserved.
    • Premium WordPress Themes / Theme by wpStyles.org
    sustanon prices